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26 September 2008

A Stercus accidit's perspective of America today

As a Bruneian thousands of miles away from Uncle Sam, doubtless, I cannot understand the cultural forces behind american politics.  But please don’t get me wrong, I have been to the USA and I love the country and I love the people (well not exactly everyone). I love the way democracy works in that country which shows that we dont have to resort to violence or anarchy like what happen in most other countries to exercise your freedom of thought and your voice.  But as an outsider here is what I see the current situation in the US and its people. 

Most Americans do not travel outside the country. In fact they see that the USA is the world. They can call the “world series” like the baseball world series even though no other countries are participating. Many of them think that only America is effective and that the rest of the world should unquestioningly follow her lead. To them America is, without question, the best country in the world, despite that these people very often have never even visited another country. I find that most of them are shockingly ignorant of the world and because of this they are very gullible. when their leaders say something negative of other countries, they take everything "as is". When Bush said that Saddam was building a nuke bomb and had WMD, most of them believed him.

Many Americans think only in the yin and yang pattern.  Black or white, good or evil, right or wrong.  you are “with me or against me”.   Too them, an action is either right or wrong, you are either a liberal or a conservative.  But the world, on the other hand, does not necessarily fit neatly into that pattern. Switzerland or even my country always prefer to be neutral. You can be a conservative on certain issues and sometimes you can be liberal about certain issues and sometimes you can be neutral on certain issues.  It cannot be that if I differ from you, I am against you.

The US government is surprisingly very open to corruption but somehow it appears to be legal by way of campaign financing, lobbying, and “ I scratch your back and you scratch mine” cronyism.  The jewish lobby for instance is so powerful and none of the Dems or GOP dare enough to make political snipes on Israel for fear of upsetting the fund flows. So we cannot see them as a neutral broker for the peace process in the middle east.

Your President used outright lies to pass legislations to curtail your freedom.  He used the 911 fear and the al-Qaeda fear factor as a smokescreen to pass a series of Acts increasing executive power, to deny access to ever increasing amounts of information about his government and to forbid examination of controversial policies having nothing to do with the war. 

I see McCain, the GOP presidential candidate as an opportunist who became wealthy by having an affair and subsequently marrying a woman from a very wealthy family after his 1st wife had an accident.  He is no war hero. He got caught by the Viet-cong for not taking orders from his superior.  I think his 5 years in the “vietnam hilton” made him an impulsive war mongering hawk simply to get even with everyone .  This is a man who has an inexperienced running mate who used her beauty as a purely political ploy.  This is a man, during an election campaign, refused media interviews on the flimsiest of excuses and now he wanted to postpone the debate. (I’m still waiting for the news of his appearance at the time of writing this blog)

So to me if you voted for this man, you are basically will be giving Bush a third term in office. and pray tell..if this happens I say God please help us!


23 September 2008

Back to the gym

Today just after Isya, I made for the first time in nearly 2 months my pilgrimage to the Fitness Zone- my gym in town owned by the famous Taiwan based Bruneian Wu Chun. With a few pounds gained, hitting to the gym was in itself a real effort for me as the “mood” is still not there yet.


After doing my routine stretching and warmup - I thought the first thing I would do was taking a dip into the lap pool and spend 25 minutes cardio exercise with my favourite free style strokes.  So I hit to the pool’s changing room located at the lower level of gym. At 845 pm, I was all alone so I had quick mirror check. I could have sworn that my love handle have grown in size! 

After 30 minutes in the water, I was not yet certain whether this was worth the effort as I was really gasping for air. I was really huffing and puffing in the water.   Honestly, the fasting month has not really helped kept my weight down.  


20 September 2008

Another bomb blast in Islamabad Pakistan

there was another bomb blast in Pakistan and possibly 50 people were killed and the number of fatalities  could increase.  This is utterly a stupid act. These stupid militants are bringing shame to Islam. Shame on you!!  There is no wonder that in the west there is a growing fear of islam. Who can blame them? whilst its true that not all muslims are terrorist but its also true that most terrorists now are muslims.
I often wondered which is a better country, one that is governed and influenced heavily by theological dogma or one that is governed by a democratic regime.  If we compare India and Pakistan, both countries came out from the shackles of colonialism at about the same time but look at India and Pakistan.  India as the biggest democracy in the world is now seen as another China with an annual 2 digit economic growth.  But look at where Pakistan is. we hear killings almost on a daily basis. political killings and killings in the name of Islam. The muslims are also killing amongst themselves between the sunni majority and the Shia minority. corruption is rampant. high unemployment. at the rate they are going, the country is spiraling downward.  It is obvious that India will be the first to achieve a developed nation status.

19 September 2008

What are big sisters for?



Did I tell you, I had a surprise call last tuesday from my big sis?  she is now residing in Kuching Sarawak, East Malaysia. "hai lai, are you in Brunei? I would be in Brunei for a short transit esok. Why dont we get together with everyone for sungkai lai? before I even paused for an answer, she went on " You belanja (treat) lai ah?. Dont tell everyone that I am around as I want to give them a little surprise" I actually even forgot with what I wanted to say as my big sis has this habit of talking continuously only to pause when she wants to take a breathe. I was actually delighted to hear from her as I had not called her for awhile and I actually had not seen her for months. She did come to Brunei for a short visit but that was like 6 months ago if I recall correctly. so I told her "Ok tu kaka tini, its on me. we can book at Ilotus as they really serve good buffet for sungkai".."eh why not at the airport?" she asked casually "you know lai, I have to catch a flight at 8 pm". 


 I thought the airport restaurant is also good but at $28 per person and for 15 people would be too tight on my wallet. Not that I wanted to sound so stingy, I had been giving a few dinner and sahur treats to a couple of friends for the last 3 or 4 nights and raya is coming. So I told her, "the Ilotus is really good kaka as I was there 2 nights ago. what you can do is to check in early and get your boarding pass so that you wont have to rush to the airport afterwards". and the good thing of being siblings, we can always be frank to each other "besides, the airport restaurant is expensivelah kaka tini, if we get everyone together, my pocket is not that deep enough at the moment, you know lah raya is coming" she nodded "ok tu lai"..well that was the conversation.

My big sis showing off her new residence in Kuching
so when the day came, unfortunately my other sis could not make it as her son was celebrating his birthday. My dad couldnt come as well as he had his usual dialysis and my youngest brother cancelled at the last minute and his excuse was that he had to attend our nephew's bday. what a dissapoinment! so it was only half the crowd than expected. it turned out to be a good 1 1/2 hr spent with my big sis.

12 September 2008

Best Headlines of all time



           Crack Found on Governor's Daughter

           [Imagine that!]


           Something Went Wrong in Jet Crash, Expert Says

           [No, really?]


           Police Begin Campaign to Run Down Jaywalkers

           [Now that's taking things a bit far!]


           Is There a Ring of Debris around Uranus?

           [Not if I wipe thoroughly!]


           Panda Mating Fails; Veterinarian Takes Over

           [What a guy!]


           Miners Refuse to Work after Death

           [No-good-for-nothing' lazy so-and-sos!]


           Juvenile Court to Try Shooting Defendant

           [See if that works any better than a fair trial!]


           War Dims Hope for Peace

           [I can see where it might have that effect!]


           If Strike Isn't Settled Quickly, It May Last Awhile

           [You think?]


           Cold Wave Linked to Temperatures

           [Who would have thought!]


           (London) Couple Slain; Police Suspect Homicide

           [They may be on to something!]


           Red Tape Holds Up New Bridges

           [You mean there's something stronger than duct

           tape?]


           Man Struck By Lightning: Faces Battery Charge

           [he probably IS the battery charge!]


           New Study of Obesity Looks for Larger Test Group

           [Weren't they fat enough?!]


           Astronaut Takes Blame for Gas in Spacecraft

           [That's what he gets for eating those beans!]


           Kids Make Nutritious Snacks

           [Taste like chicken?]


           Local High School Dropouts Cut in Half

           [Chainsaw Massacre all over again!]


           Hospitals are Sued by 7 Foot Doctors

           [Boy, are they tall!]


09 September 2008

Ramadan Karim

to all muslims and non-muslims alike throughout the world, my best wishes to all of you during this holy month of ramadan.  May God grant you health and prosperity now and in the years ahead. May this month be filled with good health and happiness for you, your family and friends.  Let us renew our pledge to God Almighty to fill this world with love and kindness.  I wish you a blessed Ramadan mubarak....

to all non-muslims, you may be wondering what ramadan is all about. here is some basic understanding on what it really means to us, which I copied courtesy of eHow.com:
Ramadan is the holiest of the four holy months in the Islamic lunar calendar. Once the sighting of the new moon is authenticated from a reliable source, several customs and stringent practices begin as part of the deep rooted Ramadan tradition. At the commencement of Ramadan, Muslims wish each other saying, "Ramadan Mubarak" which means "Blessed Ramadan."
Step2
Ramadan WishesAs instructed in the holy Quran, fasting during this holy month is one of the most significant observances. It is mandatory for all physically mature and healthy Muslims, to abstain from all kinds of foods, beverages, intoxicating substances or any kind of sexual intimacy from dawn to sunset. It is the expression of sincere and personal worship through which Muslims seek divine blessings and achieve a higher plane of spiritual consciousness. That is why the spiritual approach of the fast orders to refrain from greed, slander, false oath or even gossip. Undesirable sights or sounds are to be avoided, during this sacred month. Piety of heart and mind is needed to be achieved through the practice of fasting as it redirects the heart from trivial, mundane pursuits, towards almighty Allah. Spiritual introspection, prayer, doing good deeds for humanity and spending time with friends, family and acquaintances is the spirit of Ramadan.
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Happy Ramadan WishesOne of the long standing traditions of Ramadan is to consume one light meal just before the sun rises, which is known as Suhoor. It is considered a blessed meal. Though it is not mandatory for the Muslims to eat suhoor but it is highly recommended and the intention of continuing the fast all night long without eating suhoor is strongly discouraged. The tradition to take Suhoor, underlines the inherent intention of the fast, which is to show your obedience to Allah and not to show your physical strength. Hence taking suhoor provides the energy necessary to endure the day long fasting.
Step4
A similar tradition, to have a light meal just after the sun sets is called Iftar. Nowadays the radio or television announce the exact time of Iftar. But the old tradition was to listen to the call from the mosque’s minarets to know when Iftar begins. It is usually customary to have dates along with water as Prophet Mohammad also broke his fast eating the same. Some believers also have a light soup made of wheat boiled in meat broth.
Step5
Ramadan is an occasion to spend time with friends, family and well wishers. The breaking of the fast is followed by friends and families greeting each other Ramadan Mubarak and sharing an evening meal, consisting of meat, rice and vegetables.
Step6
Another aspect of this holy occasion of Ramadan is that the last odd numbered nights of the month is considered the “Laylat ul-Qadr”, which in English means, “Night of The Power” or “Night of The Destiny”. It is the most sacred night of the holiest month as it is believed that on this very day angel Gabriel began to disclose the Quran to the Prophet Mohammad. But the exact date is not known to anyone. Nevertheless, praying and seeking religious blessings on this night is considered thousand times powerful than any other night.
Step7
During the entire moth of Ramadan, Muslims are recommended to read the entire Quran. For the convenience of reading the Quran within the thirty days of Ramadan, the 114 chapters of it have been divided in to thirty equal parts.

An important and ancient tradition of Ramadan is charity. After the Ramadan ends Muslims donate a calculated amount, which is enough to feed one poor person in that region for one day. This custom is known as Fitra and it reminds the suffering of the poor, hungry and impoverished. This is also the occasion to pay Zakhat, or the annual alms which is the 2.5% of the entire assets. Zakat is donated to the poor and needy people of the locality as well.

07 September 2008

safe at home

I am now safely @ home. first thing gave the kids & MinnieMe a real big hug. been missing them so much...